It's not about me. I'm asking for a lady friend. She's been talking to this guy for 5 months and he still doesn't want to meet in person. She doesn't know if she should end it or continue to talk to him. I told her she should end it, he's wasting her time. Am I right or am I wrong
Oh sorry about that. She should end it. 5 months is way too long and besides he can be a catfish. Who takes that long to meet someone without valid reason.
Don't be sorry. I guess I should have stated it wasn't me in the post. That's what I thought too. Thank you for your help
What if it was 5 months without Skype or anything like that, just online chat? Would you say it's a waste of time
Its not a waste. I hate Skype anyways. But it becomes a waste if we haven't met in person within the first 6 months
I asked this question for a lady friend who has been chatting with a guy for about 5 months. He still wants to continue to chat online. He doesn't want to video chat or meet in person. Should she continue chatting with him or move on? I told her to move on but I said I'd ask on here to see what everyone else thinks
he's either super shy or catfish. I’d walk away
That's what I told her too
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You're in different countries so that's understandable. My lady friend and the guy she's been chatting with for 5 months are about 40 minutes away. He doesn't want to meet or video chat yet. Do you think she should move on?
Hell yes, she should definitely move. Sounds like a catfish and a waste of time to me.
That's what I told her. Thank you for your help
No problem at all.
My friend and the guy she's been chatting with live in the same state. She says about 40 minutes away from each other
@Wiredone So then in my opinion they should meet within a couple of weeks. (That is, if they've been talking long enough to both have a good idea of what each one of them is looking for and make sure they're on the same page. You don't want to schedule an in-person meeting prematurely and then find out the other person is polyamorous or something like that.)
They've been chatting for about 5 months. She wants to meet him but he's not ready yet
Oh. Maybe he's chubby and he's trying to lose weight?
My lady friend has been chatting with a guy for about 5 months. She wants to meet him but he says he's not ready. He doesn't want to video chat either. Should she move on or continue chatting with him
I understand he's not ready totally understanding, but it's just a date unless it's miles awayVideo well I can't do that either I don't have a laptop computer don't see the need for it right now of course I don't know his reasoning Personally I'm getting a feeling of a double life but I could be wrong
What if it lasted 4-6 months? Would you still continue the conversation or assume they just want an online relationship
I wouldn't wait that long. I'd question whether or not they even want to meet in person.