And who you’d just be friends with?
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So then do you think most of the stuff dating coaches teach is rubbish? Is sexual attraction physical for women (I. e. looks)? The coaches claim it’s the way he comes across which can be changed.
Not at all! Confidence is vital. First impressions can be changed but it’s difficult.
These coaches all claim that the best way to get what you want (a date, sex) is to ask for it and walk away tactfully if you don’t get it. Is that true too?
Sure being pushy almost never works if the girl has any self-esteem
They basically describe it as a negotiation. And they say the best negotiating tactic is to walk away And mean it if you don’t get what you want.
I wouldn’t put it that way! But being pushy doesn’t work plus it’s wrong.
So the friend zone is real then?
Yes. Sometimes you can get out of it but most times you can’t.
So do you mean that in most of these friend zone cases, it’s not just the case that she’s already not attracted to the guy enough from the moment she met the guy?
Guys get friendzoned cause there’s no romantic chemistry (sexual chemistry but no romantic chemistry equals friends with benefits). Or sometimes she likes him but he doesn’t like her that way (or vice versa). Is that what you mean?
When does she decide that is what I’m trying to find out? The moment she meets him? 3 months in? A year in? Can she like him but then change her mind after getting to know him?
It takes a little while getting to know him. In answer to your last question: possible sure but not likely without something significant changing in their relationship (like she gets a boyfriend or he gets a girlfriend). Why do you ask?
What if she gives him hints for months but he just doesn’t make a move or pretend he’s not interested?
Maybe. Why would be do that?