If women don’t want to fuck a man then he is seen as laughable and pathetic. That is why there is so much media portraying men who are lonely as basement dwelling socially unaware immature losers. A man is admired for his notch count, in many communities, and how many girlfriends he’s had. Even I have been impressed by men who have had a number of girlfriends. A man who can’t get chicks is no genuine man at all, but something viewed as sad.