Is a first date good for finding out if I like him?


So I've known this guy for over 4 years now and we've always been good friends. For about 7 months now I've been single though and we've become quite flirty towards each other over time.

Last night he asked me if I would like to go see something with him, he didn't say it was a date, but usually we all go out as a big group and this would be just the two of us.

He's a lovely guy and we get on great, the only thing is I don't find him physically attractive.

I said I'd go, so is that bad? Is it wrong to find out if you like someone through the first date? Is that getting someone's hopes up if it doesn't work out?

Let me know what you think, thanks.


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  • that's the very definition of dating