Yeah, so there is this really attractive guy that has shown interest in me at work he's been asking to hang out but I've either turned the offer down or either ignore his requests but he is so persistent. You'd think he'd get a clue that I'm not interested. At one point I had a sort of crush on him, at the time though we couldn't talk so I left him alone. But now after seeing me with a really nice suit on one day at work he just will not leave me alone. I don't know what his intentions are but I feel as if he just wants to use me for sex. I'm quite attractive myself so I feel even more apprehensive about dating him. Ever since he saw me in this nice outfit at work he has been hounding me relentlessly trying to get me to hang out with him. I don't know what to think of all of it he's been asking things about me like what it is I like to do he asked about drawing (I love to draw) he asked if I was going to make a living out of that I told him that I plan to. We have talked about work and going to school and things. He seems truly interested in me but I don't know. I feel really cautious whenever I talk to him because of how I feel about his actions.
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Cant really say what his intentions are, but what strikes me is, all of a sudden you come in with this suit and he recognises you? how come he didn't recognise you before, was you not his type before but now that you look sexy, you are his type? there's a big chance all he wants is to satify his ego and get you out so he can seduce you or at least try and flirt with you, but before he wouldn't even of approached you in this way, for me, if a guy is genuine, his attraction is the same for you no matter what you wear, because all something sexy does is make you want it a little more, but after you satify that urge, you couldn't care less, so be careful. Its obvious you have talent to be aware of his intentions, but make him work for your attention, because if he really is interested, and I'm going on personal experience, he will want to know more about you regardless of you accepting his invite, so watch how he tries, does he ask you what drawings you like drawing, see if he educates himself on the subject so he knows what he is talking about, because I would want to know if its portraits, still life,nature etc so just make him work for you, because the end of the day, your talents deserve a worthy man, not a player who's only goal is to nail you for the night and move on, take care,x0