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Why is there a need to think about it?

Some of my friends received love confession from guys. And they say they need to think about it.

I don’t really get it. Isn’t love irrational? There’s no need to think about it so hard. It’s either you like the dude or you don’t.
Of course I get the part when you must think about your future, but the guys have decent jobs, looks ok and are seemingly nice people.

The only reason I can think of is they are just not into the guy but they don’t have anyone they like at the moment so they are trying hard to convince themselves they like the guy. I think it is a really painful thing to do, rationalizing yourself into a relationship.
Why is there a need to think about it?
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