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Does he see me as a friend or a lover?

I work with a guy and over time we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk a lot. Our first convo we talked about how we’re both in college and he told me that i spoke very well so I’d be good at my major. He also told me he was going to a pizza place after work and asked me if I had any suggestions of places to go and what my favorite kind was.

the next day we had the same shift and he said he felt like he was having deja vu because we were there the day before. He told me got his pizza. I have a boyfriend and he knows. When I told him, he asked us where we go on our dates to eat. sometimes I’ll call him during work. Whenever I do, he’ll linger but maybe I’m overthinking. We don’t have time to talk mostly but sometimes I’ll look up and we’ll lock eyes from across the store. Once he also told me that I walked with a “mission” and I told him how come everyone says that and if people really pay close attention to my walking and he was like “I mean most of time I’m in the back”
he always plays with his hair around me ( he has a lot ) and sometimes has a hard time maintaining eye contact. a coworker at work told me that him and another coworker have been secretly dating for a long time now since before I got here. I heard it was private but everyone knows and He never mentioned while we talked. I was going into the bathroom and I walked in and saw him fixing his hair. It was awkward so I walked back out. I just didn’t expect it. I told another coworker and he came next to me and I apologized and he was blushing and straight faced and was like “i wasn’t doing anything otherwise I would’ve locked the door” he seemed upset but it was awkward. Today he helped me out a lot and stood close to me and start small talk based on laughing or something random. Was he flirting?
Does he see me as a friend or a lover?
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