Do you think you can do anything wrong to ruin your chances of finding the right one?

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Answer 1

Xper 7

I’m not even trying. So i myself am preventing myself from having any chances and for good reason at least in my opinion

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Asker

3 mo
Usually when I try too hard that is when I be missing up it is not like people know how to communicate anymore. And some guys don't like you when you date other people but that is what they do. I can understand not to date other people if you two agreed to be in a relationship but if it is the very beginning I am going to assume that you are saying other people.
Heartache0405

3 mo
Lol no I mean in general. I prefer being completely single.

Answer 2

Asker

Usually when I try too hard that is when I be missing up it is not like people know how to communicate anymore. And some guys don't like you when you date other people but that is what they do. I can understand not to date other people if you two agreed to be in a relationship but if it is the very beginning I am going to assume that you are saying other people.

Answer 3

Heartache0405

Lol no I mean in general. I prefer being completely single.

Answer 4

awkward_author

Xper 7

Nope. I believe if someone's truly the "right one," it will happen when it's meant to happen.

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Answer 5

Anonymous

There's plenty of things that can ruin future chances.

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Asker

3 mo
If it is already done you can't go back and redo it I see people cheat one time and never break apart. So you are saying if I used someone has the back burner than I won't ever get another chance again.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Depends how bad what you did and the person you meet if they'll accept it. Many girls/guys think sleeping around is fun without realizing the effect it'll have on prospects of a future LTR
Asker

3 mo
Wasn't talking about sleeping around I said using them as an option.
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Opinion Owner

3 mo
I'm saying you asked what if anything can ruin chances and I gave an example, cheating is another.
Asker

3 mo
Like they don't be using you as an option too I guess when you don't tell them it wouldn't hurt. That is what people's problem is they don't communicate what they want they automatically assume you are on the same page as them. Sometimes when you do take them serious they are dating someone else and don't tell your I guess act like them and don't tell if you are not sure what their intentions are. They don't tell you so I don't see what the problem is if it is the beginning of dating. Before you two decide to be official.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Definitely got to discuss exclusive or not at the beginning.
Asker

3 mo
I don't understand what the problem is with dating other people at the very beginning of you don't know them. I guess people like it if you like to them. I can understand if it was an actual relationship but at the start it shouldn't be a problem. I think players set us women up to fail.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Wouldn't know, I'm not one, but if it wasn't discussed, it shouldn't be assumed. Still, it's up to each person whether they are ok with it or not.
Asker

3 mo
It still doesn't make logically sense to me most guys do be dating other women too if it is the very beginning. They need to say will you be my girlfriend because usually when I assume that we are in the talking stage sometimes the guy just wants sex and don't tell you. It makes me mad when people don't tell you stuff but than not be ok with what you do.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Yeah but it's how it is, you can't change how someone feels about what happened even if it was a misunderstanding. It's done, best to just move on and be clear next time around.
Asker

3 mo
I don't think it would of worked out anyway because that was some bullshit but whatever people always making up excuses all the them that Is why I don't like dating men because they are like the weather it is no telling how they feel. I guess I date women maybe I get better results because women are easier.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Whatever works for you, but it's not all men either, women are peculiar too.
Asker

3 mo
I think that I am ok with being myself whenever I try to make a relationship work it just goes down the tunnel. It seems like when you are trying you get caught up in the mind games too. I just want to relax not worry about what I am doing wrong. But there are people who will use you so there is no telling what people will do. They do what they want to do.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
It's actually pretty good being alone, better than being with the wrong one. You can hang with friends or just chill.
Asker

3 mo
I don't really think that you can really do much wrong to ruin your chances of getting married because people really treat you how they feel about you. Well unless you were a serial cheater than yeah that would make sense but over some pity stuff no it wasn't going to work anyway. It is ruins the experience if you are always focus on what you can do to make the relationship work.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Yeah, but sometimes we don't see the consequences of what we do until later, then can't change it back.
Asker

3 mo
I don't really think that was a good reason the situation I told you especially if you don't know them.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Maybe not, but we can't change how others feel.
Asker

3 mo
Just next time I just won't tell them because people don't like it if you are honest with them especially when it wasn't even cheating.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Then they find out later. Better get it over at the beginning before it really gets serious.
Asker

3 mo
Really when you are only starting to date them
Opinion Owner

3 mo
No. I mean if they find out later on and break up because of how they feel, then it's worse than if it happens at the beginning.
Asker

3 mo
He just didn't want to be someone's back up boyfriend. That tells me how much women allow men to disrespect them but men be like hell no if you do it.
Opinion Owner

3 mo
Can't allow anyone to disrespect you or disrespect yourself.

Answer 6

Asker

If it is already done you can't go back and redo it I see people cheat one time and never break apart. So you are saying if I used someone has the back burner than I won't ever get another chance again.

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

Depends how bad what you did and the person you meet if they'll accept it. Many girls/guys think sleeping around is fun without realizing the effect it'll have on prospects of a future LTR

Answer 8

Asker

Wasn't talking about sleeping around I said using them as an option.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

I'm saying you asked what if anything can ruin chances and I gave an example, cheating is another.

Answer 10

Asker

Like they don't be using you as an option too I guess when you don't tell them it wouldn't hurt. That is what people's problem is they don't communicate what they want they automatically assume you are on the same page as them. Sometimes when you do take them serious they are dating someone else and don't tell your I guess act like them and don't tell if you are not sure what their intentions are. They don't tell you so I don't see what the problem is if it is the beginning of dating. Before you two decide to be official.

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

Definitely got to discuss exclusive or not at the beginning.

Answer 12

Asker

I don't understand what the problem is with dating other people at the very beginning of you don't know them. I guess people like it if you like to them. I can understand if it was an actual relationship but at the start it shouldn't be a problem. I think players set us women up to fail.

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Wouldn't know, I'm not one, but if it wasn't discussed, it shouldn't be assumed. Still, it's up to each person whether they are ok with it or not.

Answer 14

Asker

It still doesn't make logically sense to me most guys do be dating other women too if it is the very beginning. They need to say will you be my girlfriend because usually when I assume that we are in the talking stage sometimes the guy just wants sex and don't tell you. It makes me mad when people don't tell you stuff but than not be ok with what you do.

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

Yeah but it's how it is, you can't change how someone feels about what happened even if it was a misunderstanding. It's done, best to just move on and be clear next time around.

Answer 16

Asker

I don't think it would of worked out anyway because that was some bullshit but whatever people always making up excuses all the them that Is why I don't like dating men because they are like the weather it is no telling how they feel. I guess I date women maybe I get better results because women are easier.

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

Whatever works for you, but it's not all men either, women are peculiar too.

Answer 18

Asker

I think that I am ok with being myself whenever I try to make a relationship work it just goes down the tunnel. It seems like when you are trying you get caught up in the mind games too. I just want to relax not worry about what I am doing wrong. But there are people who will use you so there is no telling what people will do. They do what they want to do.

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

It's actually pretty good being alone, better than being with the wrong one. You can hang with friends or just chill.

Answer 20

Asker

I don't really think that you can really do much wrong to ruin your chances of getting married because people really treat you how they feel about you. Well unless you were a serial cheater than yeah that would make sense but over some pity stuff no it wasn't going to work anyway. It is ruins the experience if you are always focus on what you can do to make the relationship work.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

Yeah, but sometimes we don't see the consequences of what we do until later, then can't change it back.

Answer 22

Asker

I don't really think that was a good reason the situation I told you especially if you don't know them.

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

Maybe not, but we can't change how others feel.

Answer 24

Asker

Just next time I just won't tell them because people don't like it if you are honest with them especially when it wasn't even cheating.

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

Then they find out later. Better get it over at the beginning before it really gets serious.

Answer 26

Asker

Really when you are only starting to date them

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

No. I mean if they find out later on and break up because of how they feel, then it's worse than if it happens at the beginning.

Answer 28

Asker

He just didn't want to be someone's back up boyfriend. That tells me how much women allow men to disrespect them but men be like hell no if you do it.

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

Can't allow anyone to disrespect you or disrespect yourself.

Answer 30

DaSirDom

Xper 1

Ye probably we are human

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rabbitzzz | 319 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

yah I might have already.

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Asker

3 mo
That is ridiculous so you have to do everything right to be able to get married?
rabbitzzz

3 mo
what problem are you facing as a woman
Asker

3 mo
Because at the beginning of dating I don't see what the problem is dating other people if you two haven't told one another that you two are official yet. Guys in the first week be like nah if you are dating someone else when they haven't even told you that they wanted something serious. It is not like they do not do the same thing and the girl usually ends up getting played.
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rabbitzzz

3 mo
yah I see. I would still marry if I liked the girl. I doesn't matter her past if she likes me now. if she still has feelings for other it will not work.
Asker

3 mo
See I think that some guys are too msyostic.
rabbitzzz

3 mo
msyostic?

Answer 32

Asker

That is ridiculous so you have to do everything right to be able to get married?

Answer 33

rabbitzzz

what problem are you facing as a woman

Answer 34

Asker

Because at the beginning of dating I don't see what the problem is dating other people if you two haven't told one another that you two are official yet. Guys in the first week be like nah if you are dating someone else when they haven't even told you that they wanted something serious. It is not like they do not do the same thing and the girl usually ends up getting played.

Answer 35

rabbitzzz

yah I see. I would still marry if I liked the girl. I doesn't matter her past if she likes me now. if she still has feelings for other it will not work.

Answer 36

Asker

See I think that some guys are too msyostic.

Answer 37

rabbitzzz

msyostic?

Answer 38

Danny_dan92 | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Sometimes yeah

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3 mo
Whatever

Answer 39

Asker

Whatever

Answer 40

Anonymous

I’m single for life

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