Is it because of a girl's job potentially that you would not date her?
If you knew for example she works retail and you yourself have a better job or a worst job, would it affect the relationship and whether or not you'd date her?
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It depends on a lot of things. But basically if she comes off as a loser with no desire to be good at anything, wether or not it's her job, personal life, or a dream she has- then yea I'd probably be turned off of her. The reason is that someone who doesn't have aspirations is generally a lazy, unpleasant person to be around.
But she could be working in retail and at the same time doing say, theatre in her free time and I wouldn't dismiss her. Sometimes your dreams can't pay the bills, so you have to compromise. As long as she cares about *something*, that's what matters. I think a lot of girls have the same opinion on guys, except the ones where their dream is to have lots of money.1