Does guys think a girl is too pushy if she always calls him first or does guys like that?
So how much is too much for a girl to call? Should she not call him and wait for him to call her or just go on what she feels?
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Look -- it's all about your paradigm. If you are insecure and worried about how he's going to view you, then yes, I would be annoyed at you calling; because I don't want to be associated with a chick like that.
On the other hand, if you have your mind together, and you call, because you want to talk to me, and you know why you're calling, you can call me whenever you wish. Now let's say you call 30 times a day? Probably not my kind of chick either. BUT that doesn't mean that if you call once a day I'll like you any more! It's a LIFESTYLE! We like women who have a life (well, looser guys want a girl who revolves around them. successful guys want a successful, mentally healthy girl)
So be yourself, and be what you want to attract. If you are insecure and unsure about what you want, you will attract a guy that is insecure and unsure what he wants.4