I was wondering if I ever get to date a guy would he care about kissing? I've never kissed anyone or been close to it and I really don't see a need for it. It looks all nasty and noisey when I see it on TV or when my parents do it. The tongue thing looks complicated to do anyway.
As I understand relationships are emotional so please tell my why it's important? What are other things couples do other than intimate things because my parents told me that it's not the same as a friendship . What do people do in relationships?
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I have bad news for you.
Guys like kissing. But I think a lot of guys don't like it as much as women ...
But they like where kissing leads more.
Kissing is the _gateway_ to the physical side of the relationship, and if kissing is too much for you, I shudder to think how you feel about that.
With no physical side, only an asexual male would be interested. A relationship is not just someone who hangs around being even more emotionally supportive then a friend. It involves expressions of physical desire between the couple.
Emotionally, it is deeper then friendship, but for most couples, and certainly the vast majority of men, a physical element is required to sustain that deep level of emotionality.
To be very blunt, men who fell in love _and stayed in love_ with women who were not sexually active with them likely ended up raising other men's children and died out of the gene pool. Men today are descended from men who did NOT stick around with women who weren't sexually interested in them.
When you're a young dating couple, guys may not actually expect _sex_ but they need to feel you desire them, physically, or they feel rejected. And rightly so.0
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