So I've been dating this guy for almost two months now. We agreed that we would exclusively date to see where the relationship goes. I met him on a dating website and yesterday we had a weird moment where I was telling him how I was dieting and what worked for me.
He (like many other people actually) had a very strong opinion of how I should go about it and I went through it with him about how that doesn't work for me in detail. Then he just gave up and said don't eat for a month then. This was all in text, I couldn't get the tone. I replied like normal and told him that wouldn't work either.
Later I asked him if he was annoyed with me, again in text. He said no. I asked and said a couple of other things and he gave me a bunch of one word answers that made me feel odd. So the next day I checked the site I met him on to see if he had logged in and what to you know HE DID.
We went through this before, because I'll admit it, I'm pretty neurotic and it freaks me out when I feel like someone is mad at me, so I wanted to see this time and the last time we had a sort of disagreement if he'd go back to the dating site and he did. So I said well fck him and put my profile back up there and another site to which I actually ACCIDENTALLY found him on the other site. Now the idea of it being a coincidence is out of the window for me.
Here's the kicker, after being on the sites late the night before, today he texts me a whole bunch and I'm just blowing him off because I really don't need this BS after going through a heart crushing breakup with my first love. I don't need BS from my rebound, seriously. He's all up my butt with these long texts and saying stuff like "I downloaded this movie but it looks too retarded to watch on my own"...ohhh hint hint nudge nudge.
Now I'm just annoyed and would like someone to make sense of this jerk for me.
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How can you make sense of a jerk?
So, he wouldn't be the first guy who, rather than listen, wants to fix your problem. Guys can give all sorts of undesired advice and rather than explain why their idea won't work, it is better to either drop it or let them know you just wanted an ear, not advice. Oh, and honestly, talking about diets with your man just overall is a bad idea, especially trying to do it by text.
The fact that he runs to other women (or tries to) when anything goes a little hazy between you two is not a good sign. It is amazingly immature and a huge red flag. Sounds like you are well on your way to ditching this guy, so keep up the no contact and move on. Good luck!0