why do men wait for days before calling a girl or replying to a text. Is he just not that into you or is he playing hard to get. Need your opinion guys!
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Because if I tip my hand and show how interested I am, the girl will lose interest. I'll seem too easy, too boring, uninteresting.
It's a stupid f***ing game I have to play usually. I don't do it to girls... the more interested the better as far as I'm concerned. 9 times out of 10 when I be myself it backfires. The more accessible, easy to reach, willing to go out on a second date... the less likely she'll go out with me twice.
So... because you girls are f***ing mental. That's why we do it.3