would you date a girl with anorexia if she didn't act 'mentally unstable'? like if she was completely normal, never let on about her ed, never complained about it.
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We all express ourselves externally based on how healthy we are internally.
That's one reason we aren't as attracted to really over weight people... some how it implies that they aren't happy, healthy, or in control of themselves. It implies self esteem issues, etc.
So a super skinny girl would also express these same Red Flags - "Oh, she's got an eating problem and therefore might be unhealthy to hang out with."
It doesn't mean it's true, but it's definitely something we all unconsciously pick up on.
The funny thing is that women will sometimes also judge the Super Fit guys this same way... "Oh, look at how obsessed he is with his body! He's likely too arrogant, no thanks!"
My point? Anorexic, super fat, or even just dirty = not attractive.