As I scroll through the questions on here I notice that many women/girls question how genuine their boyfriend/crush/men in their lives are. I am guilty of this too. I often wonder if what he says is sincere, or if he genuinely likes me or is just playing with my head.
I began to wonder why do we do this. I realized that since a very young age I was told, "All men are a**holes, they only want one thing" and "All men are pigs." Even my guy friends tell me, "all men are a**holes." I am pretty sure most women/girls are raised with this same notion. ( I am not saying all, but most)
So, if we are raised with this 'delusion' that all men are going to treat us like crap, or that we should be weary of mens' intentions, doesn't that create a huge group of paranoid, over-analyzing women who have a higher chance of dating the a**hole because they think that is the only choice they have?
In all, I guess my question is, Do most women date a**holes and questions mens' intentions because they are told from a young age men are a**holes and all they want to do is have sex with them?
lol I hope this makes sense.
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I personally am a bit more interested in whether being told that all guys are a**holes and want only sex does actually make guys be a**holes and care only for sex, considering that (and this is what I truly wonder about) if they aren't that way, then they do not satisfy the criteria of expectations females grow up with, and thus they cannot find him attractive as a result as he does not fulfill his "role" of being a d-ck.
I truly do wonder. :/
(Guys are told females are incomprehensible and illogical. I for one know it is not true - you just have to use projection and imagine the scenario for how you would react in the same situation. But most people are lazy for that, or are just plain too dumb to be capable.)2