Do guys realize what girls go through when the guy quits calling and texting them all of a sudden? One day everything is fine and the guy acts and says he interested.then bam! the girl doesn't hear from him again and he completely backs off. Do guys realize that girls sit around and wonder what they did, or what went wrong constantly and drive themselves crazy over it?
Or do you feel that they move on and never think of them again?
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I disagree with a lot of what this question regards - Your referring to every situation with every guy which isn't appreciated, but at the same time you have a valid point. By the way I'm sorry if this comes off like a snob but ill be happy to voice my opinion:
I was interested in this girl, she texted me she "wanted me" I told her that took some balls and that I like her too but we need to take things slow; 3 days later my brother texts me she is up on another dude.. Okay - yeah - that's aight I'm not gonna take part of the jealousy mind games, you do what you do, you know where I'm at.
Needless to say I ended up slowing down the texts not on purpose but based off proaction from what she texts back:
Me: "Hey hun how are things"
Me: "Right on, so I heard -insertmoviehere- is out now. Lets go tonight!"
Her: "I'm busy doing -insertactivityhere-"
Next couple days pass and here's another convo:
Me: "Morning hun" *3 hours later*
Me: "Whats are your plans for today"
Her: "Nothing really, sitting at home, u?"
Me: "Work till 7:30"
Her: "Aight - I miss you"
Me: "I miss you too, stuff seems different, is everything okay?"
Her: <-- she didn't text back.
So as you can see, I start edging off when red flags pop up - just like for her, she's terrified and it took tremendous courage to approach me and let me know that she likes me... but she's not making herself available to doing anything - However she still invites me to come to her =/ I'm not quite understanding it, but at the same time here is clearly where I stand:
If a guy/girl stops calling or texting you - obviously something has changed, it could be many factors (They feel different like you mentioned, they could be aware of the fact that the person they are interested in is trying the waters with not only them but everyone, they could be trying many things) Either way its a 50/50 win/lose streak where you must be cautious. Now if they cut off everything together, who cares - move to the next... don't waste your breath :)1