As my life has been falling apart over the past few years a so called friend of mine said she would take me out and I could talk to her about it. On our way to get something to eat she gets a call from some guy she's sleeping with and talks to him for about 45 mins. We've already gotten our table and finished eating. She asked me how life was and when I told her horrible she said "Don't talk about that you'll ruin my mood." Then after the verbal diarrhea about this new guy she is sleeping with and her still sleeping with her old boyfriend she decides it's time to leave and on the way to taking me home she almost wrecks us while trying to text message one of these guy's she's sleeping with. She said she would love to spend more time with me and talk but she had to go over to one of those guy's houses to "take care of business." I've been treated this way by every woman I've ever met. Even my own Mother abounded me when my dad died. Why do they treat people like this?
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"If your a doormat, people will walk on you."
People treat you like this because you let them. If a girl in a relationship lets me walk on her, I will stomp her out so hard she'll deflate.
She spoke on the phone for 45 minutes, after 5 minutes I would've eaten all my food and left her and her cell phone the check as that was her company tonight. This is what I mean by you letting people walk on, why the heck didn't you either ask her or spike her cell phone on the ground and leave?
"Even my own Mother abounded me when my dad died"
- this unfortunantly is the deep rooted reason why you attract these type of women. Guys seek attention that is similar to how their mom interacted with them emotionally. You look for someone who treats you coldly and ill, This is just built in you but can very well be changed once you've reconized the symptoms that leads you to find these bitches.
My advice to you is: Learn to say no and do things your way from time to time, don't be a doormat.