So I've wanted a girlfriend for a long time but I am having a hard time in my search for that special someone. It's not that I can't find girls I like, I normally can... its just that 1. I am shy and too insecure to just start talking to a girl.. 2. I've been hurt a lot by girls in the past and that's brought down my self esteem and how I feel girls view me and 3. I don't really get into situations to meet girls
But yea I guess here's a bit about me and my situation...
I am 21 years old, living at home still, working part time at a dead end job, and I still need to finish my high school. I don't have a lot of friends, only 1 in this city, and at times he can make me feel like crap about myself, which doesn't help because I normally already feel like crap about myself. I don't get out much except for when I do go and hang out with him, and we normally just hang out at his house. Umm like I said before I am an insecure person, usually based on my looks, and how I feel there's nothing really special about me.
These are the most things I can think of that usually hold myself back from getting out there and dating. I use to be in the swing of things back when I started high school and in junior high, but it seems ever since I dropped out of high school a lot went down hill. I found myself as being an outgoing and more attractive person, but not anymore.
The main reason I wanted to ask this on here was to get the views of regular people. Constructive criticism, advice, anything is appreciated. I don't want to die a lonely man... I want to find that special someone, and most of all I want to feel better about myself. I hope I added enough information.
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I found that ackwardness between relationships and I would try to jump into others but I realized, that you have to be happy and comfortable with you. being a girl attraction is big but us women like to conect with our men. It sounds like you need to explore you your can read up online of advice on anything think of some of the things taht are holding you back and learn abou them. Once your feeling better on the inside than it will project to the universe and you will be amazed of how things can turn around. Before I found my boyfriend I couldn't understand why I was singe people would always tell me I'm pretty and crap but when it came down to it I was alone and I hated it. But once I got out there and worked on some of my problems I was gettin hit on left righ and center its like people wanted to be around me instead of going to work going home and dweling on things and no one wanted to be around me. Relationships will come just think about you and were YOU wannabe and the rest will come.0