I am in big problems... I'm going on a first date with a girl I met over the chat. The problem is it will very likely be raining and cold as hell (around 5°C) 'cause we are in inland of Croatia. And moreover... We'll meet at one town with barely over 15.000 population. And it's getting really complicated. They said that it will be warm and sunny. Now totally contrary.
1. She is shy.
2. I want by any mean possible to avoid bars, pubs, etc. It's just not romantic! (and I am anti-alcohol, as she is I guess)
3. I am going to see her in her town. And I never was there, just passed by with family on summer vacations. So I have no clue where to go.
4. I can't read her signs while standing but she won't send them while being in some noisy, crowded pub full of smoke.
5. It is pretty far from my city (30km), and there is no big restaurants or anything (cinema, shopping center...)
6. I do not drive. So no driving in car scenario.
7. It's too damn cold to be long outside.
8. It's mine third girl in life, and I'm her third boyfriend in her life.
9. I have been in "relationship" for only one day. She has been for month, or two. So nothing this real.
10. I am not shy. But I've never been on first date in such coldness and rain so far from my home. Bus to city 30 km, train to her town 30 km.
So what can I do? I really had a good plans for nice weather, even if it was cold. But now, rain and cold. Almost snow. I just do not have idea :( Help me!
For a first date I want to talk little, ask her a little, and just be besides her. And you can't do it in closed spaces, you know? What is the solution to make her the first date to remember despite cold and depressive weather? How to read her signals (which are my only way to know her emotions when she is shy) and where to go? It's not a London or New York or Tokyo! It's practically a "settlement". Ohhh... I have not planned this stupid weather :(
So please advise (we have agreed to meet at Saturday, just to mention that, so it is just day and few hours away),
thank to all of you. It's just lame I had to create account for this one q.
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