Guys- how willing are you to go with a girl you met in public?
I live in a small town and go to a really small, secluded school, and all the people there have all gone to the same school with each other forever. Everyone knows everyone, and everything is the same, all the guys are the same, all the girls are the same. I only have a couple of female friends from other schools, but I'm not really that close to them.
I really want a boyfriend, but I can't see myself with anyone at my school, I have literally imagined just about every guy here. I'm hoping for someone at a different school, but how do I meet them?
Party situations don't seem to work out for me, because all they want is a hookup or the connection dies after a couple of weeks.
Just go out with a couple of friends to get coffee? Where to go, and what to do if I do see a potential guy?
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If it seems like the person likes you and is a nice/chill girl, I would be willing to hang out to see what the person is like. Honestly I was able to meet my first and still ongoing girlfriend out randomly in public. It was through a friend at a party that I tagged along with, and well she was one of his friends that I never met. Though she lives in another city, and attends a different high school, me and her seem perfect, we like the same things were able to do everything together, and it was just surprising to find that there is someone else outside my town and high school that likes the same things I do.
Advice: Go out with your friends and take a chance, get a little out of your comfort zone to meet someone. Go out to get coffee, read at the library or even shop at some store. I'm sure if I never met her at that party, we would have met somewhere else giving each other glances.
Oh! and yeah if you see a potential guy, try to look approachable/friendly as well if he is looking too.
If you catch him looking at you in the eye then glancing away, its a sign. =D
Hopefully this helps =3 good luck!0