I am falling for this boy like crazy. We have gone out many times and have spent so much time together that being without him makes me sad. He always wants to see me, and I always want to see him. We usually try to see each other frequently, and it seems to work out pretty well. This has been happening for two weeks. We have started to get a bit sexual with each other, but I know I will still keep my morals. I won't have sex with him for a while, and he knows this and is willing to wait. He hasn't pressured me or anything! This may seem like the perfect guy, but he doesn't seem to want to recognize us as a couple. I've talked to him about and he doesn't even want to change his facebook status. I feel like I'm a fling to him that will be here while he's here. He stays in my town because of a sport. I just don't know what to do. I want to call him mine so bad!
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You need to talk to him about this and let him know. Also it is still early on, a lot of guys wait for ages until they are ready comitt.
Just talk to him, let him know how you feel and say that you want to become a boyfriend and girfriend. If he say's no/ I need to think about it. Let him know that you care, talk to him and see if you can find out why he does not want to comitt. There maybe some underlying issues.
Two weeks is not long and some people do not officially become an item for a long time.0