I'm smart - I got 5A*'s, 8A's and 2B's in my GCSE's - I'm friendly and have been told I'm funny;I also make people laugh on a regular basis. I've been told and think I'm pretty (about a 7.5 to 8 out of 10) I dress well, I go to the gym so I'm not over weight, I'm well groomed (do my hair nicely, wear some but not too much makeup, and make sure I smell nice) and also find it easy to talk to guys as I usually have a fair amount in common with them; I love action movies, comedy, gaming and things that - stereotypically - guys like.
I think my problem is that I can't flirt, I have attempted and end up doing something ridiculous and feel like Bridget Jones.
I know that I'm young and shouldn't worry about it but it would be nice to meet a nice guy and have a nice relationship (I'm not desperate and don't want to be with a jerk). I've tried the whole waiting for the right guy to find me for a couple of years and that approach hasn't worked.
My standards aren't to high either; I want someone who is slightly better looking than average (or better if possible) but I'm not looking for a Brad Pitt, but most importantly I'm looking for someone kind, respectful and trustworthy.
Any advice or help you could give would be greatly appreciated.
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That's funny, I've got exactly the same problem... I'm doing well and I feel pretty confident about myself, but I've never been in a relationship. I know how this thing makes you feel like something is wrong and you just don't know what. Somehow I've got this feeling girls do like me, but it never seems to get much more than that.
But seriously, if your description is accurate (which I guess it is), then you're pretty awesome! I can't imagine that you won't find a boyfriend someday. I think some of us (including me) just need more time than others to find what we're looking for, so just be yourself. I hope you find what your looking for eventually!0