I have less than 200 friends on Facebook, yet I never get someone asking me if they want to hang out, Its always I that has to initiate. Now I don't care if I ask people out first, but sometimes its really frustrating if it is ALWAYS me. Do they really forget to remember me when they hang out? Don't say "they are busy" because everyone is programmed to be social. therefore there must always time to hang out. seriously it seems now a days the world revolves around having a lot of "connections" and the less connections you have, the less happy one person probably is at life. I am tired of always having to make the first move. WHY isn't it the other way around?
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one close friend is better then 200 nonclose friends...i have one close friend and we do everything together...believe me having connections isn't always as great as people say. put it this way would you be happier if you had one friend who asked you to hangout all the time and you asked him too or would you rather have 200 "friends" that aren't really your friends and who don't ask you because your not as important to them? If you want to be happy find someone you connect with as a good friend...someone who shares your interests and you will be happy, you don't need a lot of friends to be happy.0