If you loved a girl for 4 years and she wasn't interested in you at that time, then you got with a new girl that you're serious about and been together for 4 months, then the girl you loved for 4 years shows up and starts being nice and talking to you and apologizing for being rude saying she was just young but doesn't say she's interested but shows it. Would you consider leaving the "serious relationship" girl for her?
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From the sound of it. I take it he was never with the 4 year girl but had a super big crush on her. Well I can't really speak for a guy since I'm not one, but if he were smart he'd realize that the old girl blew her chances, and would focus on the 4 month serious girl as you put it. If he says he's serious about the 4 month girl. Then he says he's serious. But I know there's a lot of guys out there that will pine over a girl for years, be put in the friend zone, and will do anything for her, thinking they're madly in love. Only to realize after being in a real relationship that wasn't the case and that the girl they're with now is amazing if not better than the one before. Bottom line if a girl wanted to be with a guy she wouldn't friend zone him for 4 years and would have dated him by now. And if she did like him and played games then she's stupid and its her loss. I don't think that anyone should beat around the bush when it comes to liking someone. If you like someone and there's an opporunity then go for it. If not then move on. Sticking around when you know there's no chance is simply a waste of time and only gives someone a reason to walk all over you. So no I don't think the guy should leave his serious girlfriend for some girl who led him on for years. Sounds like she wants wants what she can't have.0