Okay, the story is there is this guy who is the grade ahead of me. I don't have any classes with him but we sat at the same lunch table last year, he now sits on the other side of the room at lunch. I don't know him very well, but we're not strangers. He seems really nice, but I'm way to shy to go up to him and I don't really have a chance to either. So is it weird or lame to ask him out over Facebook? If you got asked out by a moderately attractive girl over fb, would you think it was lame or not care? Thank you!
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yeah... well... I think anyone would prefer to be asked out in person. but if he knows you, and you've talked to him in the past- there's no problem with it I should think- but it would be better to jump over the whole shy barrier and ask him out in person...
another thing you might consider is telling him why you're asking him out over Facebook. unless you don't want him to know you're kind of shy.1