i don't have as much friends because the ones I did trust betrayed my trust and kindness. I don't have a girlfriend anymore because she cheated on me. I miss having a life with a line of friends but lately I've been in a line of identity and question crisis. I don't know what to do anymore or if I will ever find a good girlfriend. does anyone have any idea or dealt with this before?
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Hang in there man. I feel ya. Dealing with a similar problem right now. Just gotta stay as positive as possible. I know, I know, easier said than done. I don't follow my own advice most the time lol. But just know that friends will come and go, and so will women. It sounds strange, but it's true. And when you're not looking or least expect it is when these people usually pop into our lives. In the meantime, just try to be happy and productive. Take it one day at a time. That's how I roll. Learn to love yourself and be content. I've been all worked up about not having a lot of friends and the loss of my girl as well. But then I started thinking. Why am I so dependent on others for my happiness? Why can't I just be happy...by myself. Not forever, but in the meantime. And that's the trick. Once you love yourself enough and are happy, it's like a magnet to other people and women for sure. It's contagious. And in the meantime, do things that make you happy. Take up new hobbies. Try new things. Go on adventures. We sometimes get so caught up in relationships that we forget...there are some perks to being a lone wolf. Go find them, and enjoy them. Wish you the best man. Hope you get out of that rock and a hard place.0