I have never dated before or had a girlfriend or anything. I don't know if this hurts me or not, I want to flirt I really do but I don't want to seem like a bad guy. I just don't know if I am in bad shape for no experience and being shy?
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You sound like me (used to be). I was a late bloomer; I didn't start dating until my senior year in H.S. I was determined to graduate and not getting pregnant. Most of my GFs at this time either got married and/or have kids, or dropped out of school. May I suggest instead focus on your education and get good grades, attend college, have a job/career, have $$ in bank, and vise versa. The right woman will come when you're least expect it; I gurantee it.
In the meantime, it won't hurt starting to eat right, stay fit, join school/community activities and enjoy the life God gives you; we have only one life after all.
Being dateless or girlfriendless doesn't make you a bad; person or old-fashioned; you're just being particular knowing what you want in life. Go get it. Take good care.0