We been dating for about 2 months and I think its weird that he does not call me. The only time he calls me is when he is picking me up. Our main source of communication is texting. Which I find annoying because out text conversations can easily be done over a one minute phone call.
I asked him why he doesn't call me and he told me that he just don't like phone calls because of the awkward silence. He also won't even Skype with me because he said I can pull up a browser. I'm just asking him to call me ONCE for a few minutes. He won't budge.
We are currently at a stand still because I told him I won't text/communicate with him until he calls me. I know giving ultimatums is stupid but its just ONE phone call and he won't do it.
Am I overreacting and being unreasonable?
This whole thing is childish but I feel that the main issue is that I just don't think a relationship can grow just through texting.
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You have to look at what is really worth fighting about. Its important to pick and choose your battles, because if you get pissed over every small thing, then when something big happens he won't take you seriously.
It doesn't matter how much time you spend on the phone, its the quality of the time you have together- is he kind, sweet, funny, supportive, etc? THOSE are the things that matter, not calling.
At the end of the day you need to decide what your deal breakers are, and what to you, is worth being stubborn and getting really mad about.
This jsut seems so small in retrospect.0