So I had a little thing nudging me to check my boyfriends phone. Since I had no reason to because he hasn't been acting suspicious or nothing, I relaxingly asked me if he would show me his phone. He just handed it over and then asked why. I said I want to see your text messages. There was nothing incriminating BUT just one Thread. A girl name Ciara, his co worker. They texted about work and school. She gave him news on what was going on at school and such. She covered for him one day at work when I made plans to take him to a concert. he texted thanking her she asked how it was and he replied saying it was awesome and that "we should go to one next time" she just repleid hahahaha. Then in days to come she talked about school and work and he scarstically said well ill let you go I'm sure you have to run and tell your BOYFRIEND. She never replied back... But what got to me is this convo: You let me knwo how you would react; (Keep in mind they work together and go to school together also)
He says: "Hey! Why didn't you come see today?"
Her: "How did you know I was there?"
Him: "I smelled you!"
Her: " Sorry, I had dinner plans and had to run :("
Him: " Okay well Ill take a rain check and we can we can meet up some other time"
Her: "GUESS what?!? I just got in an accident for texting you! Thank god the guys was nice and he let me go :)"
Him: 8( oops I'm sorry
Her: "ITs okay glad it was nothing major"
That was the last thing she texted. I asked him what the heck was the deal with "I smelled you?! and saying we can meet up someother time? he said ntohing is going on and that he would even introduce me to her. He said she wears so much perfume so its hard not to miss her and that the meeting up part was for them hanging out for lunch or something. He said that was it. I let it go and asked that I hoped he was telling the truth and that I hope he wasn't lying. The next day I checked his phone again and he had deleted his text messaging thread with her. Why would he do that if I had already seen it? I feel like he likes her and flirts with her. Everyone at his work knows me and knows he has a girlfriend. so what's the f***en deal here?
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He's playing you, pure and simple.
But what you need to think about is why you were curious enough to want to do that; I guarantee there was some small reason (and just learn from it)
The obvious thing to do is move on. I reeeaaallllly hope this is a no-brainer :}
seriously...don't try to rationalize HIS bull$hit so YOU can buy...you'll just end up being that crazy cat lady who walks around with umbrellas on sunny days.
Flirting is one thing- (the only people that DON'T flirt to some degree...is a friggin hermit); but uhh text-flirting... that's pretty out there, if your considered a couple.
Unless they were meeting up to smoke pot or something...lol That's pretty much the only reason that might make that even resemble something appropriate.
I dated a girl that did that kinda stuff. The whole incognegro flirting on texts, and the workplace flirting, etc.
and guess what? she was the biggest liar I have ever known, and she was cheating on me the whole time. lol, I was supppeeeer green and naive
learning experience =]13
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