Ok so I am rapidly losing hope in men! Literally I have joined plenty of fish and okcupid now my mom is telling me to join eharmony or match and I'm freaking out like I met a guy who is now not answering my texts unless we are talking about sex (I really want sex with him so I don't mind) but I don't know I wanted a relationship I want someone to cuddle me all the time and just send all there time with me! Omg I'm literally going insane like I just don't even want to... Live I mean I would never commit suicide but like I don't know I'm just really depressed I just want a man really bad like really bad I'm trying to be good and pray for one but I mean I'm just not seeing it happening and I just want to be eith this one guy and I hate texting the crap outta him but I mean I don't know maybe if I offer sex he will like me then we can date.. I just wanna be a young wife and mom and I'm 21 like not getting younger in the slightest. I don't know what to do then I thought about going to a psychologist but... I can't tell my mom that I want to go back to one she won't take me seriously, she didn't when I went the first time... She told me to pray instead but I don't know prayer isn't working. I just don't know about anything anymore and I hate the emotional roller coaster of like texting him then waiting on a text and like bawling when I don't get one and then thinking that I will never find someone better I mean he is nice and funny and so incredibly sexy like I will never meet a guy like that who likes me back until him
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your 21 and upset that you aren't married with kids yet? blasphemy!
seriously though, you should enjoy this time of your life, where you shouldn't be expected to be married or anything like that yet
until you start loving yourself, your not gonna find anyone. you seem to hate yourself for not meeting unreasonable, or even ridiculously stupid and unnecessary expectations.
if you have that mentality where you need to find a guy to get married and have kids ASAP, your gonna wind up settling for someone who sucks1