There's this guy I work with who I have a super, major, ridiculous crush on. About three years ago, our soccer teams had a couple of practices together, and he said that he remembers me, even though we only interacted MAYBE twice. We're always teasing each other, and we're very sarcastic with each other, although the last couple of times I've seen him, he seems to be joking with me a tiny bit less, and trying more for regular old conversation. Which is good, except that when I like a guy I get sarcastic and teasing with him. He would often come up to me while we're working and say hi, or make silly comments, or to just chat, and he pretty much always says good bye and "have a good night" when I leave. He also always looks me in the eye when we talk, and he always looks at me with his eyebrows raised.
However today we were working in different sections, and I didn't see him much except for when I was on my break. There were a couple of times when it was slow that he could have walked over to say hi or whatever, but he didn't. Even when I was standing right there.
So I'm getting some serious mixed signals, and now I'm confused, and sad, and like I said, my heart is really hurting right now. So just tell me what to do, because I have no freaking clue, haha
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This isn't going to be easy. Working your way into the psyche of a guy is never easy. If you want things to go back to normal, you have to give the guy a chance to miss you. I know that it's not going to be easy (in fact, I suck at this part too). Do your best to act like you haven't noticed that he hasn't come over to talk to you. I'm not saying to give him the cold shoulder or ignore him. Not at all, just don't let him know how bummed out it makes you that he's not around. Talk to some other cute guys at work. If they say something funny, laugh. Don't be afraid to be interested in someone else. If he's really interested in you, then he'll come back around to make sure that he doesn't lose his shot and if he isn't you've just found yourself a new prospect or two to keep you busy. :)0