We've known each other for years.. He cheated on me once and got serious with another girl he met online. They actually met and she was his first (in bed and everything). All the while, he was flirting with me and leading me on.
After they broke up, he called me crying to confide in me and I forgave him and helped him through it. We fight a LOT, break up and get back together..
He says he refuses to get serious and call me a girlfriend until we meet and see if we get along. He always says that if I lived by him, I would be his hands down.. I was going to meet him this summer, but I told him I wouldn't sleep with him on the first time and he broke up with me in a fight.. He said I discussed it the wrong way (which is probably true). We're talking again, and we're going to take it really slow .. one step at a time.. He really wants to meet me, but I'm scared that he's going to leave me again and it will hurt worse after we meet. What do I do? He's probably all wrong for me and I'm probably all wrong for him.. Is this ever going to work out or should I just give up hope? I really do like him.. obviously. He likes me too, but he's the typical guy who doesn't show his feelings and that makes it harder to figure out what I should do.
- Meet Him - take a chance.Vote A
- Wait a little longer, see where it goes.Vote B
- Leave him -- he's already proven to be not worth it.Vote C