I have noticed that I'm rarely successful when I ask girls out. Whether it's because they want to play hard to get or just don't want to, I have a low rate of success.
On the other hand, sometimes I just interact like I normally do every day and once in a while a girl will pop up where it's plain she's interested. I know people say that girls never make the first move and whatnot, but it seems to me that when a girl is interested, it's pretty clear, not much guesswork. And from there I can start going out with them. Saves a lot of pain and uncertainty.
So I wondered why this was and I was thinking that maybe if you're the one who shows more interest at first, then the other person has the upperhand? Maybe it's best to wait till someone shows interest in you before making a move?
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If you feel it show... because people can't read minds and there's nothing wrong with being invested... we want to be cared for. We all care for people etc. You're more nervous if you're invested but its also more important and a rush to try... and if it hurts, it hurts but you realize that its no big deal and move on soon afterwards.0