I really like this guy, but everyone thinks he's so annoying and cocky and arrogant. They get so annoyed when he speaks. He doesn't really annoy me at all. I think his cocky side is kind of funny.. I know he doesn't actually take himself THAT seriously. anyways, I like him, but my family, brother, friends think he can be super annoying. Can I like someone like that? Am I blind to his selfishness or do I just see the good side of him that others don't?
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You understand his personality and they don't. I have come across this problem also. I am very sarcastic at times and I joke with a straight face. If you do not know we well enough you might assume things about me that aren't true.
If you like him go for it! Your family/friends can't dictate everything you do. You are an adult and its okay for you to make your own choices and mistakes.
Give your friends/family some time maybe they will understand him as well as you do, eventually. And if they don't who cares! As long as he treats you well then that is what really matters.0