so I met this guy like a month ago and the second time we hung out (both times with a small group) was new years and we kissed at midnight and exchanged numbers...I finally texted him a few weeks later and we texted a little and I suggested hanging out...we kinda said we would the following weekend...I texted him on wednesday and asked if he wanted to come get drinks with me and a few friends and he asked where and I told him and that was it...when I said we should hang out the first time I implied a small group and he said we...did he mean just us...did I ruin everything?
Please please help. I'm lonely.....did I ruin everything?
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It wasn't you - it sounds like he was only making a minimal effort with you and then let it peter off.
He just wasn't as interested in it as you were - it happens. Sometimes single guys have more than one burner going, sometimes the pot gets moved to the front burner, other times the pot is taken off the stove completely. If he was really interested, hanging around with several friends would not have been a deal breaker.
Maybe, you'll hear from him in the future.
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