There's a guy I know from Middle School called John. We were great friends, and he really liked me but I never liked him. When I moved away, we kept in touch for years, but he always liked me and told me he even loved me.
We still talk today (and nearly everyday), but my boyfriend doesn't know about him. John still really likes me, even though he knows I have a boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend? I'm just worried that he'll take it wrong and be pissed that I never told him about John before. What do you think?
Any advice is appreciated!
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Most Helpful Guy
Guys don't want to hear about other guys crushing on their girlfriends, especially a guy that she communicates daily with. I think your boyfriend will not be happy about John and the fact that you never told him about him. By telling him you'll probably jeopardize his trust in you and his feelings of security. I think honesty is the best policy in a relationship, but a delayed truth can be just as hurtful as a lie.0