Would you ever get together with someone who doesn't live life similar to the way you do? Even if you guys got along great and had amazing chemistry?
For example: You don't do drugs(tried it and it wasn't your style), only drink occasionally, and party with close friends rather than a bunch of strangers. While he smokes cigarettes regularly, parties, drugs, etc.
How would that effect you if you were really digging them, and they were digging you. Would you go for it, or would it eventually Because way too much conflict in the relationship?
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ride the wave for as long as you can or want to..but just keep in mind that there are only a very limited set of outcomes, depending on whether things remain at the status quo, or a a couple of other scenarios:
status quo- its prob fun and exciting right now, going to parties, staying out late, flirting with the danger of getting busted, etc...however- because of your constant exposure to these kinds of behaviors, you are running the risk of using just because everyone else is, and getting dependent on them, just like everyone else is...and getting busted=possible jail time=criminal record...at any rate, eventually you are going to get tired of it, could be sooner, could be later, but at that moment, you are going to realize how much time you have wasted getting wasted. and you will see how irresponsible behavior has not educated you in how to live a responsible life so you can get a good job, live in a nice neighborhood, drive a nice car, land a husband that provides for you and your family and sail off into the sunset together...
the tricky part is knowing when the party (for you) is over and it's time to clean up the mess in the living room and get back to work.0