i know this question will get deleted but I have to state my opinion and ask for others. I have a right to my opinion regardless of how others will think. If I were a chick and my boyfriend came out to me and said he was gay, I would pissed off. I would have to remove myself before I got violent. you don't just turn gay, so you knew it when you started dating me. Why would you choose to play with a woman's emotions and lead her on knowing you are NOT romantically interested? that would really disgust me and piss me off. If you know you are gay , don't date women!
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Some people use it has a cover up, because they aren't ready to come out to others in fear of what they will think and how society will percieve them. Also, people may cover up because at first they are indenial of their feelings toward the same sex and think of their view as a phase that will eventually pass. Learning that this isn't a phase and that this is something that will never go away they learn to become OK with who they are and accept it.
I don't think anyone does this, directly to hurt someones feelings but more so to protect their own (even though that may still be wrong). Although it may hurt if someone did this to me, I would try to stand on their side of the fence to understand why they did this. Being gay is still not accepted in todays society and coming out is a very hard process. If I really did care for this person I would try to be supportive of what they are going through (blowing up at them will not resolve anything) and let them know it is OK to be themselves.
I will be truthful and saywhen told thi, I would need time to gather my thoughts but my end resolution would be to try to understand. I would also let them know that what they did isn't OK and from this point on they need to stop caring how other people will view them and know that in this situation their feelings are all that matters.4
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