I don't know what to do because I do not want to hurt anyone. I can't help how I feel! I have a boyfriend who is great and loves me a lot. He is so wonderful and I love him and can't hurt him. However, there is another boy who I am in love with as well. He gives me butterflies and makes me feel like I've never felt before. I am so torn because I know deep down that I want to be with the second guy, but the thought of breaking my boyfriend's heart KILLS me because he is such a wonderful person. I know it is worse the longer I wait, but I seriously don't want to be the person to hurt him!
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If you want to be with another man, you are NOT in love with your boyfriend. You need to break up with him. This will kill the love, slowly perhaps, but sooner or later, it's all going to die. You should spare him the drawn-out death. You love your boyfriend, but are not in love wtih him. You love how he is wiht you. It's not fair to him to have these feelings and hide them. Also, I'd be careful. It sounds like you are just enamored with this other boy.0