waits for one of them to commit. What do think?
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How can you possibly be giving 2 guys a chance simultaneously? It's a contradiction. How can a guy commit to a girl who is currently dating someone else? If a girl is dating some one else she is not dating me, because she's created a competition or a game of sorts, which isn't what dating is. Dating is trying a person out, and you can't effectively do that with someone else involved. It's like me saying, I want to see how well you can focus on what I'm saying and simultaneously having someone else scream in your ear. Equally, how can you focus on you and her, when you can't stop thinking about him and her?
This girl sounds manipulative. I guarantee she wouldn't feel like you've "committed" to her if you were dating a 2nd girl, as well. In fact, she'd probably use that lack of commitment as an excuse for doing something more serious with someone else while dating you. If anyone is under this situation, I advise them to get out. Being manipulated is a horrible feeling, and this is certainly the path towards that.0