Seriously, I have not had a date since Halloween 2011. I get numerous girl's phone numbers but they never answer the first text or pick up the phone after the first call. If I call they might say, "let me call you later tonight, I'm busy doing ..."
I DO have dating experience. My last girlfriend did a stint of modeling for photos and runway when studying abroad in England. Aka, HOT! The two before were equally hot and was together each over a year. I broke up with them...
So to the list...
-Light skinned Puerto Rican *think Ricky Martin
-Tall, 6 foot 2
-Weight lift, muscular at 190 pounds
-Bachelors and Masters Degrees
-Dress in styles like Kenneth Cole and Oscar De La Renta
-Wear Chanel and Dolce Cologne
-apparently I am very attractive according to many females
-play the piano and guitar
-Very social and confident
-Might be TMI, but 8 length, 6 inch girth *I normally NEVER advertise this
-Recently learned to Salsa dance
-Becoming a pretty great cook
-Drive a Mazda 3 (paid off this past year)
-Very flirtatious and fun
-Love to travel and have been to over 25 countries
-Learning to speak Spanish
-I don't drink a lot, but when I do they are mixed spirit drinks
-I have 3 pairs of fashionable shoes that cost me over $100
-Shower daily and shave every 2-3 days.
-Currently a student studying to get a Doctorate, hoping to be a college professor
-I am very sweet to all my lady friends/acquaintences
-Seriously always humble but confident in myself
...I really do not want to go on much more. I am feeling more and more big headed as I write this.
Can somebody tell me if I am missing something?
I read on here about guys needing confidence and positive traits. So, am I missing something?
*I can't believe I forgot to mention that!
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Now, don't take this the wrong way. There are a lot of girls/women who go for your type, you sound like you have a lot going for you that women would love but the fact that it has only been 4 months that you have been dateless and you are worried about it kinda shows a little desperation. Women do pick up on that.
Four months isn't very long to be dateless and the fact that you are asking this question gives me the impression that it is too long for you and you really want to get some dates. Just enjoy the spare time that you have to yourself. Once you stop trying the dates will start flooding in. It's the unwritten rule. It always happens.
So it sounds like you have a lot going for you, I imagine that the women you go for have a lot going for them too. You don't need to lower your standards or anything (although it is worth a try, you can always find a diamond in the rough) but understand that these women would probably be very busy. Don't try so hard to get a date, wait for them to come to you. They will.1
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