Convincing yourself otherwise..

have you ever convinced yourself you feel something for someone, but don't really?

I keep catching myself doing this.. for 2 years I had convinced myself I wanted this particular boy as a boyfriend and really liked him, but when it came down to it, I realized I never actually felt anything for him other than lust..


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  • My girlfriend convinces herself other wise. But those are one of the many sole reasons that I love her, with all of my being.

  • How do you know if it's lust vs love? I'm asking because I'm curious. I like someone right now but I'm scared I'm only chasing after her because I want to conquer her. Atm I just want to be friends without boundary. That means talking freely about whatever is on our mind, making sex jokes, etc.

    Have you ever convince yourself otherwise? Like liking someone a lot but convincing yourself you feel nothing or it's wrong?


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