over the past month developments with this guy I am seeing have been going pretty good. he calls me everyday. we go out on dates that don't always end with us bumping uglies. we are communicating better. blah blah blah.
i really like him and fear that now is the time to walk away. I know he is seeing another girl (I don't know if he is seeing just one other girl). she left a loofa in his shower, and there is evidence of another woman being there. (I snooped while he was at work.)
i fear he has pumped me full of false hope and a false sense of security by bringing up how much he wants to have a baby and and doing things that show that he likes me, when in fact, he just wants to keep me around for his pleasure. I'm afraid if I don't walk away now then he is just going to string me along and play me like a fiddle.
is now an appropriate time to talk about where this thing is going so that I may determine whether I should stay or go? how do I bring this talk up? should I just stop seeing him and start a search for someone that doesn't play all these head games?
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I do't think there's any doubt you should walk away, so why drag it out with a lot of meetings? This isn't a business relationship, so just disappear without notice. Leave a lot of your stuff hidden around for the next girl to find, though.2