We had him over the other night and as my fiance sometimes has to work at night, I was alone with him.
He was a bit drunk, so I offered he could stay in your guest room. When I went to ask if he needed anything else before I go to bed he suddenly came towards me, pulled me in and started kissing me. What was even worse he tried to get his hands under my shirt. I tried to get away but he just didn't let me go.
The thank go someone was at the door. afterward I just went into our bedroom and locked the door. The next morning he was gone before I woke up.
I wonder if I should tell my fiance about this. I know he was drunk but what he did was still bad.I really want to tellhim, but on the other hand I don't want them to fight becauseof me.
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its difficult when something like that happens, but a good thing to do would be to confront this guy on his own and tell him that if anything like that happens again, you won't hesitate on telling your partner, or yes you could just tell him and hope nothing gets out of hand, but letting this one time pass won't make you the bad man/woman, I know yo umust feel as you would be keeping something from your partner, but as long as you make it clear to this guy that he was out of order and still have not made up your mind whether to tell your partner or not, he should comply to your expectations, good luck,x1