I often hear opposite views on if a girl should text a guy, especially after a first date. Some of my friends (mostly female) say to wait because if he wants to see you, he will contact you. Others (mostly guys) say they hate doing all the chasing so go ahead as long as it is like 10 times a day or something. So, guys, what do you think? Is it a turn off if a girl asks you out on a second date when both of you seem interested?
Need some guy advice....
What Guys Said 4
Not a turnoff at all. I like knowing she is interested in me and if I'm doing all the chasing with her not putting anything forward how am I gonna know that?0
ill give you an honest answer lol maybe you shouldn't ask him out on the second date but kind of somehow let him know that you want to go out on another one. I know it can get kind of annoying when the girl never texts you unless you text her first and she never goes on a date unless they ask you no? really I guess to sum it all up, there are two sides of a relationship and I believe the guy should do the most, but not it all.
Hope that helps :)0
It would be a turn on for me.0
Just text him. The turn off isn't if a girl asks a guy out, the turn off is THIS SORT OF QUESTION.0
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