I'm hoping this doesn't mean my guy is not that into me. Our primary form of contact (when we're not together) is texting, but I always text first. The relationship is only new so I thought he might not want to look too keen, or maybe he just doesn't think to text me. What do you think?
What are your reasons for never texting first...?
Btw I never text more than a few times a day:) so I'm not swamping him with messages...
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I never call first (neither text, but I don't text much anyway.) because that's what the lady in the relationship is supposed to do. From my perspective having her be the first one to initiate contact most of the time (not necessarily ALL of the time) is a good way of keeping a good communication balance. Also, when she calls I will answer, so its not like we are distant.
I don't want to be all over her because then I would be needy and be less attractive to her. So, on my experience this keeps a good balance between being too needy and being too distant. On my experience this approach is the one that will keep the girls happier. (even if they say otherwise. Many times women say they want one thing but not really.)0