I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. we live together. about a month ago his phone broke. he can't afford a new one right now so he sometimes uses mine.
he wanted to play battle for Mars on my phone and logged on to his account in the Google play store. the other day I was updating my apps and realized after seeing tons I had never downloaded it was still signed in under his account.
there were TONS of sketchy apostle he downloaded. gym babes and other stuff to just look at girls. but mostly dating apps. I didn't know what to think. he know how I feel about that stuff and to be honest I NEVER would have thought he would do that to me.
I confronted him on it. he admitted he had signed up for a lot of them a year ago and blamed it on the rough patch we were going through in our relationship. he got kinda defensive and tried to push the blame on me. I wasn't having it. he has lied about p*rn in the past and also about looking at naked pictures of girls. now this. he admitted to emailing with some girls.
today I did a Google search and found a ton of profiles for him looking to hook up. I don't know what to think or do. he swears they are all inactive now and he is so in love with me and does t want to lose me. I'm so confused. I love him so much. but I can't stand dishonesty.
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That sucks. I won't say all guys are the same but my roommate is a big online dating guy and he finally had a good girlfriend going for about 6 months until they went through a rough patch and he started using them again. Even after they got back together he still went on the websites and kept talking to women. I don't know if he ever did anything with the other girls but I know he was pretending he loved the women he was dating more then he really did. He liked having a girl friend but wanted to make sure he had something to fall back on if it broke apart.1