Most guys and girls I know would agree that at the beginning of dating, between the time you meet and your first few dates, the guy should do most of the pursuing, because if he doesn't he's not interested. And that if you stop hearing from him you should assume he's not into you.
However, after you've been dating for weeks and he talks to you every day, do you think the tables turn a bit, where if he usually contacts you every single day but you never contact him first, he will think you are the disinterested one?
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Well, from personal experience, it feels like a sign they are becoming less interested in you (me) if I always spark the conversation, So I tend to be quiet for a day or two and if I don't hear anything, I know they lost interest, but if I get a response, I know they are interested (and depending on the time it takes to notice me doing my silent strike and who the person it (some girls have busy lives and may not be able to contact me until the second day or something) hope this helps! (it's very possible he was just busy yesterday!)
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