I'm sleeping with a friend of mine & he is forever asking me if I have slept with anyone recently? he asks this every couple of weeks just slipping it into conversation! he even asked at the beginning how many I had slept with & why it was such a low number! I have never asked him and wouldn't dare since it is casual sex, so why is he asking me? is it a big deal to guys knowning how many guys a certain girl has slept with?
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Personally if I wanted to know how many men it's because I'd want to know how many experience I have to contend with to stand out and be counted as memorable, but the way he's asking makes it sound like he wants you to tell him about the things you did. Saying "why so few" is just weird to me, normally guys would rather you didn't or at the very least if you had many hope that you'd be able to teach THEM something.
Maybe he's one of those guys that considers casual sex extremely normal?0