Ok so I am a 20 year old male and I am a virgin, yes its weird I know. reason is because I refuse to do one night stands or else I could have gotten laid years ago and I am very picky with women. (trying to lower my standards) I am noy ugly or anything or socially awkward or anything, like I said I'm just picky and I like girls with values. (I am not religious). so tomorrow night I have a 100% opportunity to get laid by 3 different girls but I hardly know them and there is one problem. I am completely in love with another girl right now that has a boyfriend (pretty sure he's cheating on her) and she doesn't want to have sex till marriage and I feel like if I hold off a bit longer I can make her mine. So I don't know if I should just get this virgin thing out of the way tomorrow night or stay a virgin even if it means not getting with the girl I love. What should I do?
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1) you would bone one of three girls immediately (although you refuse to do one night stands, but would this be an exception?)
2) you would try to get a girl who's in a relationship, and see if you could get her later on when: A) you're in love with her, but would try to make her have sex with you which would make her question her values and morals, which brings me to point B) you say you like girls with values, and here comes a girl who has values, yet you'd want to have sex with her, going against her values?
i think you need to think a bit more deeply about what you'd be doing in either decision... but I mean, it's your virginity, so do whatever you think feels right. that's the only way you can make a certain decision. ignore any pressures or outside influence.0
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